"When It's Over" is a song inspired by relationships that start off with great expectations,lots of love and strong feelings,but somewhere down the line someone starts to feel neglected because the attention that was once given has become almost non existent...Then at some point the person feeling the neglect turns to someone else for the attention they're searching for that (YOU) once gave them....By all means,try talking things over before you make a decision that you may later regret....D'natural